Memorial planning is about creating a meaningful way to remember and honour a life, in a way that feels right for you and for those who loved them.

A memorial does not have to follow a set format. It might take place weeks or months after a funeral, or instead of one altogether. It can be formal or informal, public or private, spiritual, secular, or something uniquely personal. What matters most is that it reflects the person being remembered and offers space for remembrance, connection, and reflection.

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As a celebrant, I can support you with every aspect of planning a memorial, including shaping the structure of the ceremony, finding the right words, and creating moments that feel authentic and comforting. Together, we can include readings, music, personal stories, shared reflections, or symbolic acts such as lighting candles, planting something living, or inviting quiet participation from those present. 

My role focuses on the ceremony itself; any practical arrangements are made separately, usually with the support of a funeral director.

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Memorial planning can also be part of looking ahead. Some people choose to plan their own memorial in advance, taking comfort in knowing their wishes are understood and that their life will be remembered in a way that feels true to them.

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Whether you are remembering someone who has died, or planning ahead for yourself, memorial planning is an act of care — for yourself, and for those who will gather to remember.

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If you would like to talk about memorial planning, or to explore what might feel right for you, you are very welcome to get in touch. I am always happy to listen, answer questions, and talk things through at your pace.